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Pets whose owners do not want the ashes back are buried in the garden outside of the facility.

Forever in Our Hearts: Pet cremation helps pet owners say farewell

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Forever in Our Hearts: Pet cremation helps pet owners say farewell
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Pets have a way of nuzzling their way into our hearts forever, so what happens when those furry, four-legged friends pass away? 

One woman in Detroit Lakes recently opened up a big option when she started her business, Forever in Our Hearts.

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The pet cremation place, which opened up in May, is located four miles east of Detroit Lakes in on highway 34.

And although some may not have the best visuals when thinking of a pet cremation facility, Forever in Our Hearts owner Cheryl Behlmer takes care to make sure her place has a warm, caring feeling to it.

“Almost like a funeral home,” she said, “I want people to feel like their pet is going to a good place where there’s somebody there who cares.”

Behlmer, an animal lover who has six dogs of her own (Ike, Socks, Lucy, Pete, Sparky … and a new little puppy), got the idea of opening up a business like this when she went to go get her little Yorkie, Pippi, cremated over a year ago through a local veterinarian that contracts the job out.

“And I was told it would take four weeks to get her back, and in the wintertime it’s even longer,” she said, adding that the job is actually done in North Dakota.

“And I missed her — I just wanted to get her home because it think that’s such a big part of the healing process,” said Behlmer, who also didn’t like the idea of mass cremations.

“My big fear was … am I getting my own dog back? You just don’t really know for sure,” said Behlmer, who then saw the need for a service like this in the Detroit Lakes area.

Although Behlmer is now the person who does cremation for the Detroit Lakes Animal Hospital, she does say it’s less expensive to contact her directly.

The cremation room of Forever in Our Hearts has the large, shiny burner you’d expect it to, but at the same time is also cheerily adorned with sweet animal decorations and a sparkly painted ceiling.

“I wanted it to feel like a little bit of Heaven,” said Behlmer, who says customers get their pet’s ashes back in a decorative tin, but also have many other options of different style urns or even blooming bio-urns that bloom with perennial flowers in the shape of a heart or paw.

“And I also do clay paw prints too, so if somebody wants that done before hand, I can do that,” said Behlmer, adding that she is working on getting her sandblasting and engraving capabilities up and running soon.

A variety of big, shiny rocks already sit outside of the facility ready to be picked out and personalized.

“And there are people, too, who don’t want the ashes back, so what I do then is dig a little spot in my garden out front here and put them in there because they need a place to go, too,” she said, adding that engraved rocks will be added to her garden with the names of the dogs that have stayed there.

Behlmer says she sees a lot of tears in her new profession, and knows it’s just too difficult for some people to bring their pets in themselves.

“So I will go out within like a 25-mile radius and pick them up if they need me to do that,” she said, adding that she will take care of dogs, cats, birds — whatever pet somebody wants to keep forever.

“And it really is a good way to do it instead of burying them because this way if you ever move you can take your pet with you,” said Behlmer, who knows she is a good person to help grieving pet owners through hard times.

Not only has she lost beloved pets, but she says she has great compassion for those grieving, as she has lived through the ultimate pain of losing a child.

“And she really has been my inspiration through all of this,” said Behlmer, who lost her 30-year-old daughter, Amanda, in a snowmobile accident three and a half years ago.

“And she was such an animal lover,” said Behlmer, glancing at the many photos of Amanda sprinkled throughout the room — some of them with animals.

One photo is of a bench that sits next to Amanda’s grave that says “Forever in Our Hearts” — the inspiration behind her new business name.

“So I told my husband … when I go, you take my ashes, put all of my dogs in here with me and you put me by my daughter,” said Behlmer, who seems to have learned how to laugh through the pain and help others with theirs.

To contact Forever In Our Hearts, call 218-850-3042.

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